Preparing Your Heart for Speak Up

As speakers, authors, and ministry leaders, we often spend weeks preparing book proposals and presentations, refining manuscripts, creating an impressive one sheet, and organizing travel details. While those preparations are important, some of the most meaningful work happens before we ever meet with an agent or editor, step onto a stage or walk into a conference room.

Start with your heart. 

Begin by surrendering your expectations to the Lord. We all arrive with hopes—connections we’d like to make, opportunities we’d like to pursue, or goals we’d like to accomplish. Yet God often works in ways we never anticipated. The conversation in a hallway, the prayer shared with a stranger, or the encouragement offered during a difficult moment may become far more significant than anything on the official schedule. My first book contract came through my relationship with one of my coauthors Lynn Cowell who was my leader in a small group speaker training session. 

Enter with a teachable spirit. 

Conferences naturally invite feedback. Some comments will affirm your gifts and calling. Others may challenge your perspective or reveal areas where you can grow. Receive the wisdom being shared with you during one on one sessions graciously. And remember that feedback is not a measure of your value. Your identity is secure in Christ. Because of that security, you can listen openly, receive what is helpful, and release what is not. 

Pursue mutual relationships. 

In a world that often encourages networking for personal gain, consider approaching the conference with a spirit of “There you are!” instead of “Here I am.” Every person you meet has a story, a calling, a struggle, and a purpose that matters to God. Take time to be genuinely curious about others. Ask questions. Listen carefully. Celebrate what God is doing in their lives. Some of the relationships that shape your future ministry may begin with a simple conversation and a willingness to be fully present. I smile remembering friendships with fellow Speak Up attendees that began while in line waiting for meals that have evolved into reciprocal ministry support with now fellow faculty members as we celebrate each other’s book launches and speaking opportunities from all across the country.

Care for your body and emotions. 

Conferences can be exciting, but they can also be exhausting. Build margin into your schedule. Stay hydrated, get adequate rest, and create moments for prayer and reflection. Healthy boundaries allow you to remain fully present without becoming depleted.

A Good Reminder

Most importantly, remember that your calling is not to impress people but to love them well. Whether you are speaking from a stage, signing books, leading a workshop, or sharing a meal, your presence often communicates as much as your words. People may not remember every point you made, but they will remember how they felt in your presence.

Questions:  If you’re joining us at Speak Up this year, what’s one thing you’re praying over as you prepare? I’d love to hear it in the comments. And if you can’t be there this time, would you leave a word of encouragement for those who will be? Your prayers and support mean more than you know.

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